CÉCILE CHARLOT

Many times over have I been asked to masturbate in front of my lover. I have been told that doing so is not just a turn on, but also a way to know what works for me.

With your lover, take on shared masturbation. Watch them and talk them through their self-pleasuring. Take note of what they do to please themselves.

Then it is your turn. Allow them to watch you doing to yourself what pleases you most. Be open, be daring. Let them see you in your most vulnerable state.